Deeper Intimate Partnership

I am different from many relationship therapists in that I am very interactive, and my focus is on teaching couples specific communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy building skills. I am trained to Level 3 in Gottman and use EFT techniques as well. I help you understand your relationship and how to use challenging moments and situations to make it stronger. My goal is not to keep you in relationship therapy forever, but to help you build your capacity to meet the challenges independently

What kinds of relationships?

In my 30-plus years of practice, I have become experienced with helping all kinds of intimate relationships: Couples, poly, LGBTQI, Interracial, Senior, Intergenerational.

What kinds of issues?

I welcome your challenges with simply getting closer, life transitions, parenting, sexuality, conflict, abuse, addiction, extended family, financial, and planning for the future. I especially like helping you find shared meaning and purpose.

Can you save our relationship?

It's not up to me whether you stay together or not, it is your decision. But I will help you to communicate honestly, fairly, and compassionately so that whatever path you choose will be the best it can be

How long will it take?

Relationship therapy is something I do with you -- not to you. So I will provide guidance, but it's up to you how much you want, and when you are finished. I usually recommend coming weekly until we get some comfort with your use of the skills, and then we can strech the cadence out so that you have time to practice on your own and incorporate your improved communication style.